HAPPY EVEN AFTER

Being cheated on is a destructive action to your self-confidence, cause your insecurity, feeling unworthy and not good enough. Especially in Asian countries, men are the breadwinner, whenever men cheat, society will expect the women to accept, because that is men nature. These days women and men have the same opportunity to cheat.

The person who is their partner cheated on them, often having trust issue and low self-esteem.

The person being cheat on would be the one who have self-blame.

Just like me, when I found out my partner cheat on me, I refuse to feel the pain.

I buried my self in my works and business trip so I don’t have to feel the pain.

I did hypnotherapy, but apparently it only helps me to ease the pain without solved the core issued.

How to deal with infidelity?

As you aware that anyone who come in our life is sent to support, to love or to be our lesson in this lifetime.

When you accept that he/she only a messenger for you to be a better & stronger version of you, you will more focus on what is my lesson rather than why this event happened to me. As you accept and learn the lesson behind it you completed the first step, what the next step? The next step is to let go all the pain that no longer served us.

All emotions of anger, sad, shame and guilt that often haunted our feeling. It would be easy if you already know the first step, if you know that the lesson is to take care of yourself first or self-love, with ease you can let go and release all the emotion that no longer served you. When you let go the pain, you become lighter, because lower vibration emotions are the things that weight you down.

Is meditation the only tools? Because let’s face it not all people can meditate.

Off course meditation is not the only tools, but for me meditation is the shortest and the most effective to heal my pain and overcome feeling of not good enough. Why? As you built closer relationship with yourself, you will understand the purpose of your life, as you connected deeper with yourself you will feel enough. When you feel good enough you will raise your vibration and self confidence and be the best version of you. You can easily manifest you dream life and more connected to the message of the universe, to God.

Having unbalance relationship and overcome infidelity is a precious experience in life, for me it helps me to built empathy for all the victim of infidelity, I understand that one of my purpose in this life time to bring hope to all people, women especially, that there is rainbow in every storm.

We are deserved to be happy, to live happy, to have love again in our life.

We are deserved and worthy to all the beautiful things in life, all we have to do is claim, manifest, feel that its coming because we are a spark of Gods and we are more powerful that what we give ourselves credit.

Love & Light,

Happy Even After, 14 of January 2021

Ayu Tresna, we are powerful beyond measure